8:26 AM

Man Vs Woman (Part 2)

I talked about this earlier here.


It's really funny how each gender thinks and the truth remains that the mind can never fully meet with the heart. This is a finding that I can keep talking on forever because each gender is simply different and there is no chance that you can find a man & woman with the same mental and sentimental level. I know that this will not make sense to you. But then, once it does, then you will start to understand and it will in the end make sense!

As a general thought, men are much more "hard" than women, while women tend to be much more soft. Men are more self-dependant, while women are more social. Men rely on their rational thoughts(mind), while women rely more on sentiments(assuming it to be heart). These observations are generalizations, of course, but they are fairly obvious.

I accept the fact that I'm different on my level of thinking with my wife. I also tell her sometimes that these are the differences between you and me. However, a woman never wants to feel that she is different from her husband. Her husband has to be her soulmate and they should be the same in everything. Well, as you guessed. This is wrong. A Soulmate can also have differences.

The only question that run through my head now is...If God has created us different, then why bother with that? Why don't we look for the simalarities rather than concentrating on our differences? Men and women can be the same if they crave to be, but they should also give space for their differences to occur.

The keyword is personality.

Regards,

D.enigma

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

First of all, I wish you and your wife always lead a happy life.

Also, I don't think soul mates mean that both should be the exact same or at least very similar to one another. Soul mates in my head are two people, different genders of course ><, complete each other. They share companionship and love. As well as helping the other grow.

If I am bad with children and my soul mate is good, she'd help me get better. I doubt that anyone cane find a perfect person, as in having the exact same characteristics and likings. Different is always good.

Take care of yourself man, best of luck in your life :).

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